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Singleness and God

Singleness and God

Vanetta This is an excerpt from a reflection I was asked to share at church a few months ago, about my experiences with singleness. As a quick recap for those who don’t know – my 1st relationship is also by God’s grace my last relationship. I got married aged 30...
Emotional Landscapes and Legacies

Emotional Landscapes and Legacies

I came across the below image yesterday and it really spoke to me. Partly because I’m interested in attachment theory and the quote reminds me of it. And partly, as finding the quote came after a great conversation I had with a friend about the responsibility of...
Serenely Single

Serenely Single

“Hi, I’m Vanetta, I’m 29 and my life could be the perfect story for ‘Never Been Kissed 2’” Have you ever seen that 1999 cheesy rom-com ‘Never Been Kissed’ with Drew Barrymore? It’s the story of a 25 year old copy editor, who has never been in a serious relationship...